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It's easy to assume that infidelity is the big cause of a divorce. But it is an unfair assumption. Not everyone is a WS or BS. Lots of marriages go down the tubes between the 10th and 20th year. And it isn't always an affair.<p>Well, it is safe to assume that MOST on the infidelity boards are here because of affairs. [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img]

Dear Tutter,<p>Sometimes how we say is remember more than what we say. This site is provided by the Harley's. The tools they provide in addition to this site have proved valuable. Posting on this site does not require the reading of the books here nor the using of the tools, however, those who want to get the best advantage will find learning about the tools here to their benefit. <p>The info here is based on a lot of common sense. Something that often is lost when the A hits. Many here are either in shock or a daze. Recovery from that phase is quite painful. Many have implemented various forms of plan A and B before even coming to MB. <p>We don't shun anyone here except those who have come to disrupt and hurt those already in great pain (ie: TOW board renegades & individual vengeful OPs), sometimes it is good to remind those of us who are able to help others to recall our main purpose here. Sharing of ideas is good but if you watch closely some in pain will gravitate to those who respond and sometimes the responses while meaning to be helpful may instill ideas that could be counter productive. We want to all work on being productive. Another thing is that some are soo confused they have a hard time judging ideas that are better than others. <p>JMHO,
L.