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<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr><strong>Your WW left and has not paid attention to her children since she left, is that right? You will not have trouble getting custody of them, I assume, maybe sole custody?</strong><hr></blockquote>
Not quite, she comes once in a while and bring the kid out when I am not able to get them. Only a few hours and last week had been a hell ... it turns out to be she is OW from hell and battered OM'W. She can't charge them since thre is RO on OM'W. You are mistaken ... this is my bigest problem. In this time of day, the law pretty much the same ... unless I could prove that she is dangerous to my kids or expose them to indicent act or she is using drug
in front of my kids, father never get sole custody. There is a website dedicated to help father to fight the system but it doesn't look good. As I say to SH, I will Dv and not look back if my kids get the impact. I have faith that either my WW come home or she will slip and do the lists of thing that will give me 2 D. I wait.<p> <blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr><strong>Your faith is inspiring. You are a true witness of God's compassion and patience. I know that you are beginning to accept that D is coming, but what do you think WW will do if OM dumps her as OM's son implied? I hate to think of the turmoil she might create for you and daughters if she tries to get back in your lives.
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I walk the path of BS then actually I was a WS for paid ONS after my confrontation with my WW. I never like it a bit and actually I was throwing up afterward. I punished my body and almost going to the dark alley until HE wakes me up and see the truth. I was in skiing to retreat and self reflection and found myself. With His mercy and grace I am even stopped occational "beat myself up" that I was never truly get rid off since teenage ... I am sober for almost 3 months. I regret what I had done to myself but I know now that I have to walk both side to understand what BS and even on short time WS felt. I know this recovery is for keep. Once I am at peace with HIM all the doors are opened up, it is painful but I know HE will not give me more than I could handle. I could actually feel the pain from my WW ... this is not herself. I was as WS and be able to see it through. Remember even
lust thingking of woman is sin too, who are we to judge.<p>Do you why I have car accident back on my trips ?. I was batteling the images on my head and the urge to go back to Bay Area quick (temptations). I pray for HIS help to stop it since I know I will fail. 15 minutes later I had car accident. I was glad actually it happened.<p>lupolady,
Yes, I told my WW that there is a good side of her and there is a bad side of her. I hope there is good side of her left that I could see.
