[img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] Hi from a stranger! Sorry to see Ms. Psychobabble is still at it. I like the sfm's response above - an impersonal voice mail sound! Really, I think you should try that one, it'll piss her off, like she's nobody!<p>But the dream with her nose changing!! = Its Pinnochio!! She's a liar!!! Is there anyway to get ther incoming # blocked from all the phones. Really, she is a stalker! I hope the situation sorts itself out soon. Be cool [img]images/icons/cool.gif" border="0[/img] <p>As for me, [img]images/icons/frown.gif" border="0[/img] the married life has not gotten better. OW got divorced by October. My H filed for D in November. I signed nothing. By January, he wanted to come home. I said ok. Then he started argueing & fighting with ME that I had not changed! After I told him I wanted to put the past behind us!! I had confirmation from other people who saw & heard things of my suspicions, and there was a PA. I get the feeling it fizzled out by now, but not certain. His first week home, I found her in his apartment (where he went to "pack" to bring stuff home; and in her parking lot, when he had phoned me to say he was on the road & would be another hour before he got home!!! He was only out of the house for 2 mnths. Since coming back, he said several times he made a mistake, would refile & he was moving out. My consent was not needed for dismissal since HE filed. Judge dismissed it 2 weeks ago. <p>H sleeps on family room floor every night & we dont speak a word except a rare yes or no. I am still waiting (Why? I dont know, slap me!) for him to wake up & realize things. I am extremely lonely & unhappy.<p>On the job front, I finally got a new job in November. SO glad to be out of that hell hole. I love the new place. I got a 2nd job in evening/weekend 10 hrs a week for income. Going well also. SO I am rarely home! Am sad & lonely though. Keep me in mind if you pray. <p>I didnt want to steal your thread, just update you on my lovely rollercoaster life. Of course, when you were giving me words of wisdom (almost 1 year ago!!!) I was a basket case. On the D/D category. I have been seeing a therapist since July, though sometimes I think my female friends are more helpful with better advice. I take antidepressants too. They make a big difference in thoughts & actions (Effexor). Hope things get better for you soon.<p>CLG.<p>met 1986, married 1991.
suspected H's EA 04/01, PA confirmed later from strangers. He denies all.
He filed D 11/01. Returned home 01/02.
He filed dismissal 01/02. Judge dismissed it 03/02.
H still in total withdrawal, but living in same house. I'm stuck in Limbo.