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Thank you all for your replies and support!!! <p>I wanted to keep you all updated, and also to simply provide a reminder that A's really do end.<p>I Luv - I think it really would be great to compile a thread with links to a bunch of "End of A's"... so many BS's come on here (including me!!!) hopeless ... and CONVINCED that the A is ever-lasting.... giving it so much more power than it really has. Great idea!<p>I'll certainly keep you all posted if anything new happens. Shoot, I may never hear from him again [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] ....
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YES YES YES !!!<p>Do it, ILuv! Create a thread where we can monitor all the AFFAIR and AFFAIR-based marriage endings. We'll make it an on-going thread. I'll help monitor it too.<p>Great Idea!<p>Lv, Jo
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Good for you girl! <p>It has been a while since I've posted. I've been in the process of plan B and it has taken alot of my time. February 23rd was my official Plan B day. We are both living seperately. I must say, it is truly hard to be away from him, but I am feeling good about it. Everyday is a struggle. One day I feel like I can't do this. I keep thinking that I need him somehow and I can't stand being away from him. The next I hate him with all my heart and am so glad I left. Time and faith are my bestfriends these days as well as staying extremely busy. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>This is my time to work on me and my life. I can't be so dependant on him anymore when I CAN'T depend on him anyway. I have to get in a place where I am gonna be okay no matter what. A place where if something goes bad, I still have myself to depend on. I'm not there yet. I've expressed to him that he should do the same. He says he is. I hope he finds what he is looking for and that he settles all his issues as well. I hope he grows up. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>We haven't discussed divorce yet. ???Don't think either one of us really wants a divorce. My fingers are crossed that it doesn't come up to bite me in *ss. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] Time will tell. <p>So, Faith, I think you are doing the right and only thing you can and could do. Don't second guess yourself. Take care of you!! I'm off to read and reply to other posts. Gotta catch up. Feels good to be back on [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Clouds
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Good for you girl! <p>It has been a while since I've posted. I've been in the process of plan B and it has taken alot of my time. February 23rd was my official Plan B day. We are both living seperately. I must say, it is truly hard to be away from him, but I am feeling good about it. Everyday is a struggle. One day I feel like I can't do this. I keep thinking that I need him somehow and I can't stand being away from him. The next I hate him with all my heart and am so glad I left. Time and faith are my bestfriends these days as well as staying extremely busy. [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>This is my time to work on me and my life. I can't be so dependant on him anymore when I CAN'T depend on him anyway. I have to get in a place where I am gonna be okay no matter what. A place where if something goes bad, I still have myself to depend on. I'm not there yet. I've expressed to him that he should do the same. He says he is. I hope he finds what he is looking for and that he settles all his issues as well. I hope he grows up. [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>We haven't discussed divorce yet. ???Don't think either one of us really wants a divorce. My fingers are crossed that it doesn't come up to bite me in *ss. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] Time will tell. <p>So, Faith, I think you are doing the right and only thing you can and could do. Don't second guess yourself. Take care of you!! I'm off to read and reply to other posts. Gotta catch up. Feels good to be back on [img]images/icons/wink.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Clouds
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OOPS!! Double posted. SORRY!!
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faith1,<p>I haven't posted much lately, but I do follow the boards. I believe most WS's come to the point your xH is at, although they don't always let the BS's know. Must be hard enough to face yourself, let alone admit it to the person you hurt the most.<p>sad dad
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