Pornography addiction is much more widespread and destructive than most people think. Most women feel betrayed when they discover their husband has been viewing porn; they consider it a violation of the marital vows.

I just want to point out that your wife would not be able to "forgive" you were it not for your doing what it took to end the pornography and to make your marriage better and safer than ever. On Marriage Builders, we call that part "Just Compensation," and it includes eliminating all the ways that made the addiction possible as well as learning how to meet each other's intimate emotional needs and ending love busters.

I'm glad it worked out for you.