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 Re: Serial Cheater
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Nov 5th a 09:45 PM
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| by living_well |
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i'm sorry this happened to you. Please know that this was not your fault. Of course he knows he is doing something wrong! I was married to a serial cheater for 30 years. Here is what you need to know
- serial cheaters are quite different from people who accidentally have an affair. They are addicted to the chase/ bed not to the person.
- serial cheaters get better over time. My XH could go from sitting next to a stranger to getting her into bed in less than 2 hours.
- they always gaslight, as do all addicts.
Dr Harley told me that the only way to be married to a serial cheater is to be with him 24/7. No separations ever. That did not work for me as he had a job. Anyway, by then I hated him.
I got divorced and met wonderful man very quickly. We have now been blissfully happily married for 10 years. He, on the other hand, has never got over my departure . .
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