STILL NO AFFECTION OR ROMANCE!!!!!!!!! - 10/22/99 05:32 AM
I don't know what else to do. Thanks, for all your replys but none of that stuff is working. I have always tried to grant my H every desire, dream, wish. Befrore we became Christians he put everyone before me, now he just uuggggg. He doesn't show affection. He thinks paying bills and washing my car is enough. I don't nag him about it though. I try to give him hints about things. The other day we were shopping I showed him something i wanted for $20. H says we couldn't afford it at the time, then he turned right around and bought him a $60.00 watch. Is that wrong or what, H doesn't think so. I am tired of crying abd buying things for myself, I make all the plans for us to do things together. I have to give him notice so that we can do them. Still alot of times i end uo dissapointed. I love H dearly, but what can I do to get him to understand. Even H will tell you I am a good wife and mother, I don't fuss and cuss and nag him about it, but it makes me feel like he don't care. I am tired of crying and having my feelings hurt.<P> Advice Please Anyone!!! <BR><P>------------------<BR>