I am BS, but friend may think I am having an A - need input - 07/07/03 04:30 PM
Any input on this situation is appreciated -
BACKGROUND
I am the BS
WH has lived away from home for several years, though we are not separated officially.
HERE'S THE DILEMA -
I am part of a sailing race crew that races each Wednesday evening. A few weeks ago, there was a storm that rolled in so we didn't sail. We sat around the tables on the patio and talked and one by one the crew left till it was me and a male crew member (our team is co-ed).
A man I knew from Church (who also knows WH but doesn't know about WH) sat down at the table next to us. I said hello & we talked for a few minutes. Shortly after that the male crew member & I got up to go & I felt a strange look from the man I knew from church. I thought " OMG, he probably thinks I am having an A!" (I am not) That was too ironic! I am not the one having the A & this guy thinks that I am! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
Then last night in church I saw him (WH was there - first time in this church in a long, long time) and this man acted different! I felt terrible. I wanted to call him up and tell him that I am not having an A. Then I thought he may think I am just trying to cover it up.
My mind is all over the place on this one. Any thoughts? I don't know if I should say anything or not ???
Any help is greatly appreciated,
D.
<small>[ July 07, 2003, 11:32 AM: Message edited by: WillGetThruThis ]</small>
BACKGROUND
I am the BS
WH has lived away from home for several years, though we are not separated officially.
HERE'S THE DILEMA -
I am part of a sailing race crew that races each Wednesday evening. A few weeks ago, there was a storm that rolled in so we didn't sail. We sat around the tables on the patio and talked and one by one the crew left till it was me and a male crew member (our team is co-ed).
A man I knew from Church (who also knows WH but doesn't know about WH) sat down at the table next to us. I said hello & we talked for a few minutes. Shortly after that the male crew member & I got up to go & I felt a strange look from the man I knew from church. I thought " OMG, he probably thinks I am having an A!" (I am not) That was too ironic! I am not the one having the A & this guy thinks that I am! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />
Then last night in church I saw him (WH was there - first time in this church in a long, long time) and this man acted different! I felt terrible. I wanted to call him up and tell him that I am not having an A. Then I thought he may think I am just trying to cover it up.
My mind is all over the place on this one. Any thoughts? I don't know if I should say anything or not ???
Any help is greatly appreciated,
D.
<small>[ July 07, 2003, 11:32 AM: Message edited by: WillGetThruThis ]</small>