My husband is the BEST LIAR in the whole world! - 01/31/06 07:49 PM
Please fellow MBs lend me your ears!!!!
I am sort of new....been posting here and there, but mostly taking in the wonderful advice that I often see here.
SOOO! My husband lies just in case you didn't see the subject. I mean 90% of the time. Apparently he has been doing this a good portion of his whole entire life. I did not realize it until his lies began to fall apart when I questioned him on the situation.
This is my concern. If he lies about the small things isn't there a REALLY GOOD chance that he will lie about any and everything else?
We have talked about this for a while and I stressed to him that you can not have a relationship without trust and right now I don't trust him at all. We did the love buster questionaire and he agreed that he does in fact lie on a regular basis. We even discussed the rest of his family (FOR YEARS)lies to protect each other from the truth.
Good talk, Great night..... Right? So I thought.
Next day he does it again. I know that it will take time and patience for him to overcome this, but I am so tired of the dishonesty. Please help with me this!
Ferra
I am sort of new....been posting here and there, but mostly taking in the wonderful advice that I often see here.
SOOO! My husband lies just in case you didn't see the subject. I mean 90% of the time. Apparently he has been doing this a good portion of his whole entire life. I did not realize it until his lies began to fall apart when I questioned him on the situation.
This is my concern. If he lies about the small things isn't there a REALLY GOOD chance that he will lie about any and everything else?
We have talked about this for a while and I stressed to him that you can not have a relationship without trust and right now I don't trust him at all. We did the love buster questionaire and he agreed that he does in fact lie on a regular basis. We even discussed the rest of his family (FOR YEARS)lies to protect each other from the truth.
Good talk, Great night..... Right? So I thought.
Next day he does it again. I know that it will take time and patience for him to overcome this, but I am so tired of the dishonesty. Please help with me this!
Ferra