I kicked WH out of house- he keeps coming back! - 12/16/06 11:19 PM
I found out about my WH's second affair 3 wks ago when OW's hubby called to tell me. We've been married 20 yrs. WH confessed right away after that- he said I never got over his first affair and he's right I never did work thru it emotionally. I hired an attorney the day after I found out and filed for D right away as I figured out marriage was over! Especially since WH didn't seem very remorseful when he confessed.I had WH served with D papers about 10 days ago- in them was an order for him to vacate our marital home. He didn't want to but I insisted so he's been sleeping elsewhere for a wk now. However- he calls me every day to chat politely and comes to see the kids and help out around the house almost every night. I think its likely that his affair is over but I"m not sure.Why would he be coming over every day after work and hanging around if he's still in his affair?My attorney advised me not to limit his visiting the kids. I am so confused! I"m beginning to worry I've rushed too fast into divorce.We've also been trying to sell our house for 6 mo now as we need something less expensive because my WH was laid off a few months ago and he's now starting his own small biz. I told WH we had a serious buyer coming over today and he showed up at 6AM this morning and made coffee then cleaned the entire house and then took us out to lunch and to a movie! If he's so hellbent to live the single life or hang out with OW then why isn't he doing it?