Thanks, Dr Harley from the bottom of my mended heart - 07/05/07 12:25 PM
Dear Dr. Harley
I arrived at this website a broken man, almost three years to the day. I was loveless, hopeless, Godless. My every assumption about God and man were smashed. It was d-day. My baby was in an affair.
By some miracle I found this site. While many other sites provided summary info - trailers for the meat of the book or course that the site was intended to help sell, the MB basic concepts provided me with a thorough resource to give me a shred of hope that I might just be able to effect the situation positively.
I read those basic concepts and many caring folks here who knew MB well helped me to apply them in my situation.
I bought "surviving an affair " ( £7.99 GBP from Amazon for anyone interested) and found it shed a little light on the details of the basic principles I had learned so very well.
Within two months I was in a rigorous plan A, I had exposed to OMs GF and the affair was being shot to pieces like tin can at a BB shoot.
By the end of 2004 my family was together and on a fairly loving vacation. God Knows we still had far to go, but the transformation was enormous. OM had become a hateful irrelevance as opposed to my Squid's "soul mate". Squid had become a frightened , regretful FWW, not a raving WS.
My kids were becoming more stable once more.
I was stronger and more confidant than in years.
My total revenue to your organization so far, Sir, I am sorry to say was only £7.99 - the price of "surviving...". * blush *
Since then, my family's life has transformed. Our home is now a box filled with people who love each other very much and who have tools to handle issues.
We are happy, yet hopeful of even more yield from our application of MB in our marriage in future.
In the last 3 years I bought "buyers, renters and freeloaders", "lovebusters" and " his needs / her needs" also from Amazon. The extra cost of these was approximately £30. Once again they shed more light on principles already generously explained on your website in basic principles and Q&A.
I sit here a few days short of the three year anniversary of D-day with an enviable marriage, great self confidence and a toolkit of life skills that cost me, in total £37.99 to MB.
I could cry in gratitude sir. My studies have led me to be asked by my pastor to offer a marrigebuilding course for our community via our little church. What a turnaround for that broken man who first came to you three years ago !
I wanted to tell you my most heartfelt "thank you" for your care in sharing so much with hurting people free of charge. I thank you for rescuing my marriage and my life by proxy.
And I offer up a prayer of thanks for you, and Marriagebuilders in the hope that you may long continue to support us all.
And I apologize for my contributing only £37.99 in return for all this wonderful blessing ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />
I arrived at this website a broken man, almost three years to the day. I was loveless, hopeless, Godless. My every assumption about God and man were smashed. It was d-day. My baby was in an affair.
By some miracle I found this site. While many other sites provided summary info - trailers for the meat of the book or course that the site was intended to help sell, the MB basic concepts provided me with a thorough resource to give me a shred of hope that I might just be able to effect the situation positively.
I read those basic concepts and many caring folks here who knew MB well helped me to apply them in my situation.
I bought "surviving an affair " ( £7.99 GBP from Amazon for anyone interested) and found it shed a little light on the details of the basic principles I had learned so very well.
Within two months I was in a rigorous plan A, I had exposed to OMs GF and the affair was being shot to pieces like tin can at a BB shoot.
By the end of 2004 my family was together and on a fairly loving vacation. God Knows we still had far to go, but the transformation was enormous. OM had become a hateful irrelevance as opposed to my Squid's "soul mate". Squid had become a frightened , regretful FWW, not a raving WS.
My kids were becoming more stable once more.
I was stronger and more confidant than in years.
My total revenue to your organization so far, Sir, I am sorry to say was only £7.99 - the price of "surviving...". * blush *
Since then, my family's life has transformed. Our home is now a box filled with people who love each other very much and who have tools to handle issues.
We are happy, yet hopeful of even more yield from our application of MB in our marriage in future.
In the last 3 years I bought "buyers, renters and freeloaders", "lovebusters" and " his needs / her needs" also from Amazon. The extra cost of these was approximately £30. Once again they shed more light on principles already generously explained on your website in basic principles and Q&A.
I sit here a few days short of the three year anniversary of D-day with an enviable marriage, great self confidence and a toolkit of life skills that cost me, in total £37.99 to MB.
I could cry in gratitude sir. My studies have led me to be asked by my pastor to offer a marrigebuilding course for our community via our little church. What a turnaround for that broken man who first came to you three years ago !
I wanted to tell you my most heartfelt "thank you" for your care in sharing so much with hurting people free of charge. I thank you for rescuing my marriage and my life by proxy.
And I offer up a prayer of thanks for you, and Marriagebuilders in the hope that you may long continue to support us all.
And I apologize for my contributing only £37.99 in return for all this wonderful blessing ! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/laugh.gif" alt="" />