mojo - 12/31/07 04:23 AM
mojo,
I didn't want this to get lost:
Even recovered BSs have felt like run run run away! I know I have....it's been too crazy. I don't think anyone feels particularly safe right now.
It must be really hard to be without your husband. I'm so glad he's coming home soon. Yes....there are many triggers for BSs....not just on the board, but everywhere....the tv, the radio, a box of cheerios....it's weird how small things will set the chain of events in motion. And a place like MB can be excruciating.....a real minefield. Ask Mulan....almost everytime she posts (because her H sounds so much like mine) it can still trigger me even after five years and I have to stay away from her threads. But I think you represent alot of people.....those who just read and follow along.....only weighing in when they feel really compelled and passionate.
I'm sorry about the misunderstanding....I realized what you probably meant right after I posted. I prefer not to edit because....my mistakes are reminders of what I still need to work on. Again...sorry for the misinterpretation.
I didn't want this to get lost:
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I haven't been posting a lot of advice lately because my husband has been at Guantanamo this year and, in all honesty, many threads have been really bad triggers and its put me in a "run, run, run away!' mood for our fellow BSes...and that isn't what they need to hear.
Even recovered BSs have felt like run run run away! I know I have....it's been too crazy. I don't think anyone feels particularly safe right now.
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So although I am not 'contributing' as much, I'm still here with everyone in spirit and checking in when I know I won't say anything that might make a newbie BSS bolt when they should just be still.
It must be really hard to be without your husband. I'm so glad he's coming home soon. Yes....there are many triggers for BSs....not just on the board, but everywhere....the tv, the radio, a box of cheerios....it's weird how small things will set the chain of events in motion. And a place like MB can be excruciating.....a real minefield. Ask Mulan....almost everytime she posts (because her H sounds so much like mine) it can still trigger me even after five years and I have to stay away from her threads. But I think you represent alot of people.....those who just read and follow along.....only weighing in when they feel really compelled and passionate.
I'm sorry about the misunderstanding....I realized what you probably meant right after I posted. I prefer not to edit because....my mistakes are reminders of what I still need to work on. Again...sorry for the misinterpretation.