And very quickly after his name was mentioned. I've always thought some strange things were going on here. Do y'all think he is a mod?

Nah, B, he just has superhuman telepathic powers.

LOL.....I swear this was total coincidence.... but I would be asking the same thing if I were you....

I actually came here by mistake....was actually intending to head into the Breitling watch forum and this site is right above it in the favorites folder.....next thing you know, I see a post by MEDC mentioning my name and I feel compelled to get back into the fray....I like the site set up. They have upped the graaphics since back when I joined in 2004.

LM, MD

Well, Lord help me if he is!! :eek: What say you, LM?

I swear folks, I am not.......just pure coincidence.....dang Believer though...she hasn't changed a bit...still doesn't miss a beat.

Do you all think this site would make me a moderator with my history here?

LM, MD

No, I don't think you are a mod material. Funny, I've just come back after 18 months.....

I'd love to see you as a mod. It would shake up this place a bit.

Hope things are going well with you and you are happily in love.

I sure hope not!! My name would be MUD!! :eek:

I was asked to be a moderator on a medical forum that I suscribe to...but even that I couldn't commit to.

I would be a terrible moderator here. Today, I am much more even keeled and willing and able to look at otheer points of view. I still believe what I believe and still believe that this site and it's teachings can cause alot of personal damage when taken to extreme and when "other" cautions (sex and protection) that are not discussed by the site's creators are not taken.

Lemonman, MD

Well.....drum roll..........

IN love, engaged and seriously thinking of planning a family very soon.

LM

No wonder you are so mellow......

Couldn't have happened to a better guy. Congratulations!

Thank you to all.

LM

So glad you mistakenly posted here. It is good to hear that folks recover even if they divorce. Gives the newbies hope.

Now, use all the stuff you learned here and you can't miss.

I feel I had to recover personally before this. I don't view being in love again as recovery.....I think the lessons learned here will go a long way towards a fulfilling lifetime relationship....and I didnt even do the program..

Lemonman, MD

Well, well, well...I was just thinking about you the other day and wondering how life was going for you. How nice to hear that it's going well, and that you're even thinking of making lemonade. It's always nice when the good guys win one.

I'm so glad you've found happiness, LM!

Neither one of you are fooling anyone. Not a mod? Hah! Not just a mod, but the same mod.

I'm sure I'm not the only one who has noticed. Lem ~ Mel. Coincidence? I don't think so.

Seriously, congrats, Lem, and always nice to see you drop in.

LEM,

"I actually came here by mistake..."

No such thing...you were guided here or something like that.

Congrats on your happiness.

kirk

How funny!

I just popped on here...not sure why I thought of it today as I haven't in quite some time. I'm so glad to hear you're happy LM. You gave me some very good advice way back when.

Cheers!

LM,

Welcome back, and congratulations. I agree love does not "heal" you need to heal to find love. I suspect you will/have found a keeper. Keep us updated, you have my deepest wishes for your happiness.

God Bless,

JL

Thank you for all of the kind words and welcome back wishes. As I sit here on call tonight with a deafly silent pager clipped to my scrubs, I find myslef purposely coming to this site to read the stories and reflect on my own life when I was once where many of you are.

So damn sad to see the names change, but the stories stay the same....

LM

Well, glad your pager isn't sounding. You can get a little break.

You deserve a good life and a woman that will appreciate you. Even though you didn't "do" the MB program, I think you have the tools to have a wonderful marriage.

And children- I debated for a long time whether or not to have kids. Had my first at 36 and second at 39. But that was the best decision I ever made! They will turn your life upside down and you will never know how you made it this many years without them.

And MEDC, you need to add that you and I and a few others are keeping up the safe sex mantra.

Lem,

Congrats and all the best to you and your almost Mrs Lem. I remember that a long time ago you expressed the sentiment that while others thought you lucky, your definition of luck was having a family of your own and that you would gladly have given up everything in exchange.

Dreams do come true.

Hi Lem,

Didn't get a chance to say that the other day when you dropped in. Always nice to see the voice of reason around here. Good luck with your future plans. I would venture to say that you are armed with lots more knowledge this time around. Best wishes to you and the lucky bride to be.

Wait a minute, I resemble that. I was LM's poster boy for HPV.

All Blessings,
Jerry