held over my head - 07/25/08 03:24 PM
I haven't posted here in about 6 months, at which time many of you helped me through many things. Including coming back to my marriage 110% after having said A... We have truly been better than ever, even better than we probably thought possible. But last night there was a communication break down, really lack of... Anyway, I was upset that we didn't communicate about her entire paycheck paying something off. We just worked it out over the phone but what got me is that she said I have no right to ever be mad at her again, I don't have the right to be mad at her for the rest of our lives and I should be thankful she's even here. Is that right? I know I was wrong when the A happened, I have learned alot, I believe we both really have. About us and about what marriage is. But do I live the rest of my life with her holding it over my head that she can do what she wants and I can never be mad at her??? Just a bit confused right now...