What's with the texting etc? - 12/22/08 09:19 PM
I have a stupid question. I have seen thread after thread where WS's keep texting their OP's every second minute 24-7. I have been crazy in love but it never occured to me to have contact with my boyfriend (ok it is now my STBX) the whole time. It was ok to go away for a weekend and talk on the phone once. My boyfriend was the same and we were both happy with it.
But then he started his idiot affair with MOW and began texting without interruption. He was texting her while he talked to me and he couldn't talk to his friends or his family without texting her.
What is this about? It is like an obsession. I know that MB sees this as addiction and that the WS gets a fix from every contact with OP. Many people would consider that to be mumbo jumbo but would anyone consider the obsession to be healthy? Do WS/OP think that they behave healthy?
But then he started his idiot affair with MOW and began texting without interruption. He was texting her while he talked to me and he couldn't talk to his friends or his family without texting her.
What is this about? It is like an obsession. I know that MB sees this as addiction and that the WS gets a fix from every contact with OP. Many people would consider that to be mumbo jumbo but would anyone consider the obsession to be healthy? Do WS/OP think that they behave healthy?