Thanks ML and PM! I'm the third child and am sweeter by far than either of my sisters
We actually moved home to be close to my family. My dad has vascular dementia (pretty much same symptoms as ALZ) - it's been getting progressively worse for the last five years. It's breaking my mom's heart to watch him deteriorate like that, and taking care of him is exhausting her. He recently started not recognizing her all the time. They have their 50th anniversary on 1 June.
After a visit last spring, DW and I decided that we should move to DFW - we can help my mom with my dad, give them a happy distraction with the grandkids, but mostly so our boys could grow up around family. It's something that neither DW nor I got to have growing up. We knew people in NC and SC who had lived in the same county all their lives, and could fill every weekend with a family activity if they wanted to - and frankly we were green with envy.
We couldn't have afforded the move if not for the awesome relocation package I got from my new employer. We had to pay to sell our house in SC but it wasn't too bad...leaving a house that we'd built, with a great lot and great neighbors, where I was a medium fish at my company, was heartbreaking, but it was the choice we made.
The way my folks light up with delight when they watch the boys play makes it worth everything we went through to get here.
I'm not a believer, but the way things lined up, I sometimes wonder if someone is telling me I made the right choice...