So…OW rears her ugly head once more! - 05/15/09 05:43 PM
Original NC letter (of which I read and approved) went out in Aug of 2006.
OW replied to this and threaten me that I better not mess up because she would take him back in a heartbeat cuz she believe he really did love her (puke)
We didn’t hear anything until 1 year later.
Sept of 2007, OW sends SD and invite to myspace.
I blocked it and told FWH
One week later FWH gets a phone text “Hi its OW just wonderin how ur doin – phone#”
He tells me right away (One more positive step toward recovery)
FWH & I decide to send NC letter #2
This one read:
OW I asked you to respect my decision and never contact me or my family ever again. Your recent myspace invite to SD was blocked. I told my wife about the text. Do not reply to this email, you have been blocked. Do not call, do not write and do not show up. If I have missed any ways for NC consider them included. You are not welcome here physically, virtually or otherwise EVER. If you continue to try and contact me I will pursue harassment charges against you.
That was the last we heard anything…until I opened my email yesterday and there was a classmates email the FWH had one email waiting. (This is an old account that has long been expired but we still get mail from them wanting FWH to sign on for another year. Also we can’t even access the email other than to see who it was from.)
Can you guess who it was from? That’s right…OW rises again.
I have to say EVERYTHING came rushing back! I thought I would be sick!
I guess I thought after three years of recovery for FWH and I that I wouldn’t have to worry about it anymore.
This was an internet affair that went from March of 2006 to June of 2006. There was only one face to face encounter because of the 500 mile distance between them.
I guess I just don’t understand. Maybe someone here can lay it out for me.
What is it going to take to make OW go away?
Thoughts?
MyBad
“Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got.”
– Janis Joplin
OW replied to this and threaten me that I better not mess up because she would take him back in a heartbeat cuz she believe he really did love her (puke)
We didn’t hear anything until 1 year later.
Sept of 2007, OW sends SD and invite to myspace.
I blocked it and told FWH
One week later FWH gets a phone text “Hi its OW just wonderin how ur doin – phone#”
He tells me right away (One more positive step toward recovery)
FWH & I decide to send NC letter #2
This one read:
OW I asked you to respect my decision and never contact me or my family ever again. Your recent myspace invite to SD was blocked. I told my wife about the text. Do not reply to this email, you have been blocked. Do not call, do not write and do not show up. If I have missed any ways for NC consider them included. You are not welcome here physically, virtually or otherwise EVER. If you continue to try and contact me I will pursue harassment charges against you.
That was the last we heard anything…until I opened my email yesterday and there was a classmates email the FWH had one email waiting. (This is an old account that has long been expired but we still get mail from them wanting FWH to sign on for another year. Also we can’t even access the email other than to see who it was from.)
Can you guess who it was from? That’s right…OW rises again.
I have to say EVERYTHING came rushing back! I thought I would be sick!
I guess I thought after three years of recovery for FWH and I that I wouldn’t have to worry about it anymore.
This was an internet affair that went from March of 2006 to June of 2006. There was only one face to face encounter because of the 500 mile distance between them.
I guess I just don’t understand. Maybe someone here can lay it out for me.
What is it going to take to make OW go away?
Thoughts?
MyBad
“Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got.”
– Janis Joplin