What are the odds for saving your M? - 01/13/02 12:36 AM
Hi,<p>I don't want to beat up a dead horse, so I tried to clarify my thoughts about my M, and where it's heading.
Here's my list:<p>+ I still have loving feelings left for H
+ We have two beautiful boys
+ H adores our boys
+ We have a history of 7 good years together
+ D has not yet been applied
+ H hasn't moved in with OW
+ H's family won't welcome OW
+ OW's difficult,neurotic, demanding...
+ H doesn't want to be stepfather, OW's got 3 kids
+ The A has lost it's thrill
+ H has never actually said he doesn't love me
+ H is indecisive, has tried to get back together
+ I'm happy with or without H. And it shows!<p>
- I have LBd
- H has unresolved childhood issues
- H has Dd twice before,patterns are hard to break
- H is going through MLC
- H is still angry at me
- H lives in OW town<p>
My list of positives seems longer... don't know...minuses have more major issues...<p>Strange how the feelings change day to day, some days I'm sure it's over, some days not so...
plan B goes on...<p>Anyone else?
Here's my list:<p>+ I still have loving feelings left for H
+ We have two beautiful boys
+ H adores our boys
+ We have a history of 7 good years together
+ D has not yet been applied
+ H hasn't moved in with OW
+ H's family won't welcome OW
+ OW's difficult,neurotic, demanding...
+ H doesn't want to be stepfather, OW's got 3 kids
+ The A has lost it's thrill
+ H has never actually said he doesn't love me
+ H is indecisive, has tried to get back together
+ I'm happy with or without H. And it shows!<p>
- I have LBd
- H has unresolved childhood issues
- H has Dd twice before,patterns are hard to break
- H is going through MLC
- H is still angry at me
- H lives in OW town<p>
My list of positives seems longer... don't know...minuses have more major issues...<p>Strange how the feelings change day to day, some days I'm sure it's over, some days not so...
plan B goes on...<p>Anyone else?