How do I not LB? - 09/06/02 01:24 AM
OK its impossible for me not to LB while being disrespected so badly. I don’t know what to do. After a short separation WS says she wants to work on things. So I agree and we agreed on some ground rules and I moved back home. We agreed to share pass codes, email accounts Etc. We also agreed to stay out of Bars for a while. We have been seeing Jennifer Chalmers for about a month. Ws is having a very hard time with affection or even being nice to me. Ws went to IC last week and was diagnosed with severe depression. So last night we talked to Jennifer and she said to try to protect each other.
I said to WS that a friend was having a party Thursday night and asked her if she would like to go. WS said no and she got an email about some of her friends from work going to Happy hour on Thursday. I said OK lets go to happy hour with your work friends and then we can go to my friend’s party. WS says no and she would like to go by herself and get some time away from me. This hurts. I say OK can you please try to be home by 8PM. Ws says OK I will try with an attitude. Ws says she will call if she is going to be late. It is know 9pm and no call and she turned her cell phone off (I can tell cause it goes right to voice mail).
How am I not supposed to not LB when she gets home? I am a doormat to her. The past 2 weeks have been just getting worse. By her recent actions I feel she is still in contact with OM. WS says she is not. If I snoop WS blows up and tells me she won’t live like this and she wants a Divorce. I am in a lose- lose situation. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this.
I said to WS that a friend was having a party Thursday night and asked her if she would like to go. WS said no and she got an email about some of her friends from work going to Happy hour on Thursday. I said OK lets go to happy hour with your work friends and then we can go to my friend’s party. WS says no and she would like to go by herself and get some time away from me. This hurts. I say OK can you please try to be home by 8PM. Ws says OK I will try with an attitude. Ws says she will call if she is going to be late. It is know 9pm and no call and she turned her cell phone off (I can tell cause it goes right to voice mail).
How am I not supposed to not LB when she gets home? I am a doormat to her. The past 2 weeks have been just getting worse. By her recent actions I feel she is still in contact with OM. WS says she is not. If I snoop WS blows up and tells me she won’t live like this and she wants a Divorce. I am in a lose- lose situation. I don’t know what to do or how to handle this.