Recent EA discovery - 11/27/06 02:05 AM
Background:
In 2001 I hurt my back and had to go back to school for Engineering degree which I was awarded in 2004. At the same time, my wife was pregnant with our third child, our only daughter.
Jump forward to the summer of 2003. I vacationed for 2 months at my parents beach house while my wife was at work at home. I had so much faith in our relationship that I had no issue with this. I came home and found some Astrology love match paper with OM birthdate on it (strange ocurrence I thought). Within 2 months, I had the OM wife calling to talk to my wife. They were fellow co-workers who shared books, CDs, and other interests. Her claim was they were only friends. I did not investigate any further.
This crushed me and rather than addressing it, I worked my way into withdrawal. I lost 100 lbs. , which I have now gained back, and have been on anti-depressants since.
Jump forward to now. Earlier this year I suspected an A as she was eager to rid herself of her wedding band at any fight. I found another love horoscope profile with WS and OM on the spy software I bought. I found a profession of her love on Bebo which was when she confessed. She admitted to an EA with no PA. This man is co-worker which she says moved to a different line. She still seems depressed over this OM but I don't belive I will ever know the whole truth. How can I know that any EA is over so that I can start to re-build this relationship.
Any help is appreciated
In 2001 I hurt my back and had to go back to school for Engineering degree which I was awarded in 2004. At the same time, my wife was pregnant with our third child, our only daughter.
Jump forward to the summer of 2003. I vacationed for 2 months at my parents beach house while my wife was at work at home. I had so much faith in our relationship that I had no issue with this. I came home and found some Astrology love match paper with OM birthdate on it (strange ocurrence I thought). Within 2 months, I had the OM wife calling to talk to my wife. They were fellow co-workers who shared books, CDs, and other interests. Her claim was they were only friends. I did not investigate any further.
This crushed me and rather than addressing it, I worked my way into withdrawal. I lost 100 lbs. , which I have now gained back, and have been on anti-depressants since.
Jump forward to now. Earlier this year I suspected an A as she was eager to rid herself of her wedding band at any fight. I found another love horoscope profile with WS and OM on the spy software I bought. I found a profession of her love on Bebo which was when she confessed. She admitted to an EA with no PA. This man is co-worker which she says moved to a different line. She still seems depressed over this OM but I don't belive I will ever know the whole truth. How can I know that any EA is over so that I can start to re-build this relationship.
Any help is appreciated