gettin stronger? - 02/28/03 08:09 PM
My WH and I spoke this morning about Coworker. He has been involved in EA with coworker. He has deceided to transfer (hopefully next week) to a different location for "more than 1 reason". I know the Main reason is not her, it is his boss. He did tell me in the past that the other reason was her. He will be changing his profession entirely in June. He told me that he has told OW that he will be leaving soon and she told him that "she couldnt sleep, is upset, blah, blah, blah". She apparently had a problem with the other worker that was there before him and there is a chance that he will be back ( I am sure my WH is a big part as well). He replied to her that "he is not staying just because of her" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> (I am sure he didnt quite word it like that to her). I told him that "she needs to take charge of her life". I know that essentially he agrees with this. I thought about my statement, wondered if I should have said it, and then made up my mind that I am glad I said it. I beleive I am getting stronger and my WH is seeing this. Has anyone has had similar experiences? thanks
Married 4/88
2 kids 9 & 6
Dday - 10/12/02-WH says wants out, unhappy for 4 years, we deceide to work on marriage.
01/03-WH says he is not "connecting" with me. I mention possible EA with co-worker, he seems genuinely surprised and answers "yes". Fog settles in-OW wants him to move in.
2/17/03-WH tells OW he is "not committed to her and wants to stay with family. I am Plan Aing and have been like crazy since Oct, seeing baby step improvements.
Married 4/88
2 kids 9 & 6
Dday - 10/12/02-WH says wants out, unhappy for 4 years, we deceide to work on marriage.
01/03-WH says he is not "connecting" with me. I mention possible EA with co-worker, he seems genuinely surprised and answers "yes". Fog settles in-OW wants him to move in.
2/17/03-WH tells OW he is "not committed to her and wants to stay with family. I am Plan Aing and have been like crazy since Oct, seeing baby step improvements.