Exposure-How and Who?? - 03/11/09 08:39 PM
I found out almost two months ago that my husband had an affair while out of town on a long term assignment. He has been home almost that long and has refused to break it off with her. I am doing my best to do Plan A. I know what his EN are and am doing my best to meet those.
My question is about exposure. I've told most of my family and friends, but haven't told his family and friends. Who should I tell and how should I tell them? E-mail, Phone call, some other way? I can't talk to most of these people in person. And how much should I tell them? Bare information or all the details? I also have a way of contacting the OW's sister. Should I do this? It would have to be through e-mail.
I guess my main concern is that I do this how God wants me to. I have been praying for guidance and reading a lot about Plan A. Thanks for all your advice!
My question is about exposure. I've told most of my family and friends, but haven't told his family and friends. Who should I tell and how should I tell them? E-mail, Phone call, some other way? I can't talk to most of these people in person. And how much should I tell them? Bare information or all the details? I also have a way of contacting the OW's sister. Should I do this? It would have to be through e-mail.
I guess my main concern is that I do this how God wants me to. I have been praying for guidance and reading a lot about Plan A. Thanks for all your advice!