How do you want your Xspouse to remember you? - 03/31/05 03:56 PM
To those who are divorcing or have divorced, how do you want to part?
My FWH and I have been LBing non-stop since Christmas 04 and I've called it quits. Our divorce petition is ready and we have made an appointment to be at the lawyer's office for signing next week. I asked for a divorce two weeks ago and he has agreed. Although we have been separated for two years, it is still very painful.
HOWEVER... I do not want him to remember me as someone who is constantly fighting with him. Since I have no expectations of him to participate in rebuilding this marriage now, our meetings have been most peaceful. I guess that is how I want him to remember me... not a horrible witch, needy, constantly crying, controllling and always having the last word.
I am just going to try my best to part peacefully though I still go through hellish days thinking he no longer loves me. But most of all, I want to find peace within myself again. I need to know that I can be comfortable being alone again.
My FWH and I have been LBing non-stop since Christmas 04 and I've called it quits. Our divorce petition is ready and we have made an appointment to be at the lawyer's office for signing next week. I asked for a divorce two weeks ago and he has agreed. Although we have been separated for two years, it is still very painful.
HOWEVER... I do not want him to remember me as someone who is constantly fighting with him. Since I have no expectations of him to participate in rebuilding this marriage now, our meetings have been most peaceful. I guess that is how I want him to remember me... not a horrible witch, needy, constantly crying, controllling and always having the last word.
I am just going to try my best to part peacefully though I still go through hellish days thinking he no longer loves me. But most of all, I want to find peace within myself again. I need to know that I can be comfortable being alone again.