Divorcing and a little scared - 08/24/05 11:01 PM
My H had an affair for the past year and he filed for divorce in March. Since that date we have a custody agreement for the children and the last thing is the division of assets.
Since the OW has dumped him he has been more attentive, but nothing has been said about fixing our marriage.
I am just confused wondering if I would be better off with out him and start over with someone new down the line or am I holding on to him for the financial reasons. Am I scared that I will be a single mom and I will be responsible for everything. I have been a stay at home mom for the past 7 years, so a job is in my future and I am OK with that.
How do you get the strenghth to say I am done and I am tired of being 2nd in their life. Do you feel a little better once you do that? I guess I am afraid of making a mistake so I kind of do nothing?
Sorry I do not know if I am making any sense - I think I just needed to vent a little.
Thanks.
Since the OW has dumped him he has been more attentive, but nothing has been said about fixing our marriage.
I am just confused wondering if I would be better off with out him and start over with someone new down the line or am I holding on to him for the financial reasons. Am I scared that I will be a single mom and I will be responsible for everything. I have been a stay at home mom for the past 7 years, so a job is in my future and I am OK with that.
How do you get the strenghth to say I am done and I am tired of being 2nd in their life. Do you feel a little better once you do that? I guess I am afraid of making a mistake so I kind of do nothing?
Sorry I do not know if I am making any sense - I think I just needed to vent a little.
Thanks.