Sadly.... I'm back where I was when I came here.... - 10/06/05 06:22 AM
Hi all,
Yes, the happy story is over... my W is gone again... all was well for almost 4 years after we re-married after her affair.
I thought I'd tell you all not to bring you down...but to warn you that Harley is right... NO CONTACT is the ONLY WAY to go in MOST cases.
My STBX was still in contact with her OM because I stupid. I trusted her and when I caught her... I let her talk me out of NO CONTACT... she felt bad for him.
I wonder if she feels bad for me now...
When finances got tight a couple of months OM was right there telling her we were going to lose the house (not even CLOSE I'm here making it on my own!!) AND>>>> there to HELP HER BUY A SMALL COTTAGE that she can afford
"BY HERSELF"... yeah right...
Anyway... I did what God wanted me to do.. I took her back... I forgave... I just should have listened to Harley about the no contact....
I'll be OK... God will continue to bless me... and I'm sure....he'll deal with them too....
I hate her OM. Mostly... for breaking up Nana & Papa... our grandchildren deserve better....
Remember... NOOOOOOOOOOO CONTACT... NONE... NAADA...ZILCH...NO CONTACTO.....
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />GOOD LUCK & PRAYERS TO YOU ALL FRANK
Yes, the happy story is over... my W is gone again... all was well for almost 4 years after we re-married after her affair.
I thought I'd tell you all not to bring you down...but to warn you that Harley is right... NO CONTACT is the ONLY WAY to go in MOST cases.
My STBX was still in contact with her OM because I stupid. I trusted her and when I caught her... I let her talk me out of NO CONTACT... she felt bad for him.
I wonder if she feels bad for me now...
When finances got tight a couple of months OM was right there telling her we were going to lose the house (not even CLOSE I'm here making it on my own!!) AND>>>> there to HELP HER BUY A SMALL COTTAGE that she can afford
"BY HERSELF"... yeah right...
Anyway... I did what God wanted me to do.. I took her back... I forgave... I just should have listened to Harley about the no contact....
I'll be OK... God will continue to bless me... and I'm sure....he'll deal with them too....
I hate her OM. Mostly... for breaking up Nana & Papa... our grandchildren deserve better....
Remember... NOOOOOOOOOOO CONTACT... NONE... NAADA...ZILCH...NO CONTACTO.....
<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />GOOD LUCK & PRAYERS TO YOU ALL FRANK