I could use some MB support right about now... - 11/12/05 01:15 AM
Hello,
Me and the W have been through a ****** of a year. Just finished trial and my W is not happy. Her lawyer got bashed really bad and her entire life with my 3 kids is not looking pretty. I tried so hard to settle fairly but she didn't want to hear it. All she wanted to do was prove wrong doing on my part and convince me to give her everything.
This has been killing me for a year but there is little I can do. She has been spreading vicious lies about me to everyone around her, including my kids.
I will be forced to take her back to family court because she's refusing all visitation now. Yes, we have a decree. Worst yet, my 6-year old daughter is being told horrible lies about me and everyone in my family. I love her so much but can't see her until we go back.
She withheld them last year through the holidays and will probably do the same again. Last Christmas I spent with them was in 2003. I'm heartbroken but determined not to let this get me too far down. This is a nightmare.
Please tell me it will be alright. Even though I know it will. My son has Autism, he is 8, my daughter is 6 and my baby is 18 months. She hardly knows me.
I live 60 miles from everyone because I can't afford to move back to their location. If I get one of the homes, I will be able to move back and have them every other weekend. I've yet to spend an overnight. I just know she won't give them up so easily. How can a mother deny her kids their father like this? A father who has done nothing but love and support them?
She is trying hard to break me but it's not working too well for her. I really wish we could have worked this out. I sure didn't want this but she went full steam ahead. Everything that came out of her lawyers mouth was absolutely untrue and now she has no other weapon but the kids. It's gonna be a long road.
I'd love to hear from anyone in this situation. Next week, I will need to file a motion of contempt over the visitation. Don't want to. But I have to for my kids. I refuse to allow them to grow up without me. They will understand one day I know.
Thanks for listening.
Steve
Me and the W have been through a ****** of a year. Just finished trial and my W is not happy. Her lawyer got bashed really bad and her entire life with my 3 kids is not looking pretty. I tried so hard to settle fairly but she didn't want to hear it. All she wanted to do was prove wrong doing on my part and convince me to give her everything.
This has been killing me for a year but there is little I can do. She has been spreading vicious lies about me to everyone around her, including my kids.
I will be forced to take her back to family court because she's refusing all visitation now. Yes, we have a decree. Worst yet, my 6-year old daughter is being told horrible lies about me and everyone in my family. I love her so much but can't see her until we go back.
She withheld them last year through the holidays and will probably do the same again. Last Christmas I spent with them was in 2003. I'm heartbroken but determined not to let this get me too far down. This is a nightmare.
Please tell me it will be alright. Even though I know it will. My son has Autism, he is 8, my daughter is 6 and my baby is 18 months. She hardly knows me.
I live 60 miles from everyone because I can't afford to move back to their location. If I get one of the homes, I will be able to move back and have them every other weekend. I've yet to spend an overnight. I just know she won't give them up so easily. How can a mother deny her kids their father like this? A father who has done nothing but love and support them?
She is trying hard to break me but it's not working too well for her. I really wish we could have worked this out. I sure didn't want this but she went full steam ahead. Everything that came out of her lawyers mouth was absolutely untrue and now she has no other weapon but the kids. It's gonna be a long road.
I'd love to hear from anyone in this situation. Next week, I will need to file a motion of contempt over the visitation. Don't want to. But I have to for my kids. I refuse to allow them to grow up without me. They will understand one day I know.
Thanks for listening.
Steve