youngnconfused,
How old are you? 30? You sound young and
restless to me.
I decided this past year that I would stop all of the non-sense and be a a supportive loving caring husband. This included me being the man of the house, taking care of things, cleaning, supporting her, being a provider, taking care of the kids, cooking, washing clothes, you know being a husband.
While all that is great,have you done anything to work on the relationship with your wife? Are you now involved with anyone else waiting in the wings?
You certainly can get worn down working so hard at parenting and marriage but that's partly due to you looking at it as a duty rather than what you believe in and as something you really care about.Leaving your wife and being with other women will only have it's own set of problems too.But you have kids to think about here which really ups the ante.It's not just about you and your happiness but it's more about theirs.
This is a marriage building site.We can certainly help you if you want to make your marriage better but no one is going to advocate ways to end it all.
Have you considered marriage counseling?
Edited to add: I have been here for 3+ years now and one thing,among other's, that I have noticed is that when one is unhappy with their life,they tend to blame other's for that: wife/husband,kids,job,whatever.Ultimately,YOU need to find out why things in your life aren't going well since there is no one person that is going to solve that for you but
you. Not switching partners,not buying a new home,not buying a new car,not sleeping with dozens of women,etc.Remember,as much as you can blame where you are now on other things,all along YOU made the choices that you did.How can you make your life better now that just may include having a great marriage,wonderful wife,kids and family? Does that sound promising?