Sometimes,they take care of themselves - 10/12/08 05:02 PM
Our son was beside himself when his wife had the A. They were so young but he loved her dearly.
The OM was twice her age,the jerk. And they all worked together,even the ex-felon MIL. We told our son to do his job as ALL of them were being watched. He said,"Watched"? We explained that,when people have a workplace A,it's counter-productive and the company is frowning on all this. He said no one was watching him. I explained that what they do is ask people he and them would not suspect. A janitor,a receptionist,a secretary. They would ask them to observe them and report back. They may even have someone that walks around just to see whats going on,especially in the cafeteria. We told him to do his job,have no words with them and he would be ok. I know it was so difficult. They would kiss and grope when they saw him,try to have words with him,leave notes on his desk. Again,we said to stay calm. It was being noticed.
When she was served at home with divorce papers,she came into work a screaming banshee. Our son said she was waving those papers,just furious with him. She asked HOW she was supposed to take care of herself without his paycheck. lol! He suggested the OM help her and she went off again. He said he just did his job and said no more. She would go upstairs and work again then come down and yell again. We told to to continue to remain calm and not fall into their little trap. They would take care of themselves.
After she was served,she really fell apart. Our son had legally left her with only her paycheck to help her. She seemed to have no concept of the fact he did NOT have to help her and wouldn't because she had the A.
Then 2 things happened that sealed their fate. They concocted this story (with the help of the ex-felon MIL who also worked there). The MIL,our sons wife and the OM actually went to HR and told them that his wife had mailed a personal letter to the OM at work and that our son had gone in the mail room,found it,opened it,read it then taped it up.
LOL! That was the best they could do? It was investigated but they found no grounds for firing our son. I mean, she mailed a PERSONAL letter to the OM at WORK? I'm amazed they didn't see how the company would take that.
But the clincher.....his wife and the OM were caught having sex at work and they lost their jobs. The MIL was caught stealing from petty cash so she lost her job too.
Like I said,sometimes they take care of themselves.lol
The OM was twice her age,the jerk. And they all worked together,even the ex-felon MIL. We told our son to do his job as ALL of them were being watched. He said,"Watched"? We explained that,when people have a workplace A,it's counter-productive and the company is frowning on all this. He said no one was watching him. I explained that what they do is ask people he and them would not suspect. A janitor,a receptionist,a secretary. They would ask them to observe them and report back. They may even have someone that walks around just to see whats going on,especially in the cafeteria. We told him to do his job,have no words with them and he would be ok. I know it was so difficult. They would kiss and grope when they saw him,try to have words with him,leave notes on his desk. Again,we said to stay calm. It was being noticed.
When she was served at home with divorce papers,she came into work a screaming banshee. Our son said she was waving those papers,just furious with him. She asked HOW she was supposed to take care of herself without his paycheck. lol! He suggested the OM help her and she went off again. He said he just did his job and said no more. She would go upstairs and work again then come down and yell again. We told to to continue to remain calm and not fall into their little trap. They would take care of themselves.
After she was served,she really fell apart. Our son had legally left her with only her paycheck to help her. She seemed to have no concept of the fact he did NOT have to help her and wouldn't because she had the A.
Then 2 things happened that sealed their fate. They concocted this story (with the help of the ex-felon MIL who also worked there). The MIL,our sons wife and the OM actually went to HR and told them that his wife had mailed a personal letter to the OM at work and that our son had gone in the mail room,found it,opened it,read it then taped it up.
LOL! That was the best they could do? It was investigated but they found no grounds for firing our son. I mean, she mailed a PERSONAL letter to the OM at WORK? I'm amazed they didn't see how the company would take that.
But the clincher.....his wife and the OM were caught having sex at work and they lost their jobs. The MIL was caught stealing from petty cash so she lost her job too.
Like I said,sometimes they take care of themselves.lol