Time to call it quits - 11/29/18 02:59 AM
It�s been a long time since I�ve been here.
Marriage is suppose to be all about teamwork. I sit back and watch my married friends get ahead in the things that I desire for my family(husband and children). However, my husband is not the one to hold down a job due to being lazy and not punctual. We are actually late for everything, and it burns me up. He�s never on time for appointments. He refuses to take the second car so that I can go to church and be on time. He will straight curse me out if we try to leave without him. He�s also belittling. I don�t even argue back with him at all anymore. I just let him say whatever. The kids are growing such a dislike for him. Anyway, I realize that when we were separated, I was able to keep the bills paid working full time and running my business, keep the house in order and go to school full time. I ended up getting laid off of my job causing bills to get further behind, so I was depleting my bank accounts, running up credit cards, using school money I saved to further schooling, using money saved toward a home and borrowing from family. Family only did it for the kids but they warned me not to take him back in. He promised that he would do better, which he hadn�t and now the stress has taken a toll on my health. While money shouldn�t be everything, I�m now in a position that without the money, we continue to struggle leaving the kids without a lot of times. I have about 3 months on my lease, and I�m seriously considering moving back with my parents until I can get back on my feet. Hopefully, my new job will give me a transfer. This has been an ongoing battle for over 7 years. Like right now I�m feeling stupid. So would I be wrong to just take the kids and go?
Marriage is suppose to be all about teamwork. I sit back and watch my married friends get ahead in the things that I desire for my family(husband and children). However, my husband is not the one to hold down a job due to being lazy and not punctual. We are actually late for everything, and it burns me up. He�s never on time for appointments. He refuses to take the second car so that I can go to church and be on time. He will straight curse me out if we try to leave without him. He�s also belittling. I don�t even argue back with him at all anymore. I just let him say whatever. The kids are growing such a dislike for him. Anyway, I realize that when we were separated, I was able to keep the bills paid working full time and running my business, keep the house in order and go to school full time. I ended up getting laid off of my job causing bills to get further behind, so I was depleting my bank accounts, running up credit cards, using school money I saved to further schooling, using money saved toward a home and borrowing from family. Family only did it for the kids but they warned me not to take him back in. He promised that he would do better, which he hadn�t and now the stress has taken a toll on my health. While money shouldn�t be everything, I�m now in a position that without the money, we continue to struggle leaving the kids without a lot of times. I have about 3 months on my lease, and I�m seriously considering moving back with my parents until I can get back on my feet. Hopefully, my new job will give me a transfer. This has been an ongoing battle for over 7 years. Like right now I�m feeling stupid. So would I be wrong to just take the kids and go?