Still in Shock!! - 04/30/01 11:11 PM
Hello Ladies.....<P>Boy am i glad to find this site!! I hate it for all of us that we have need to be here...but...since we do....I'm so glad to know I'm not alone. Well my story is sick and crazy. My spouse & the OW are expecting 4 babies in June. She was supposedly pregnant w/ six...and lost 2 early in the pregnancy. She has a boyfriend & lives with him. She's 38 w/ no children and had been trying desperately to get pregnant. Along comes my spouse...a willing donor. Thye started having an affair and decided if she got pregnant they would pin the child on the boyfriend. She got pregnant...anounced it to the boyfriend...and he anounced to her that he has been sterile for years. Boyfriend then says he wants to stay with her and they can raise the baby as their child...but of course she wants my husband to claim the children...be there for the delivery and all. I'm still in shock about the whole thing. She's called the house...had her friends to call and tell me...sent letters to me...Husband denied it all for the longest...(months)...and finally I asked him one day and he confessed. My life has not been the same since. Of course he doesn't want to lose his family, but at the same time he doesn't want to stop seeing her until after she has the babies. He doesn't desire to have a paternity test done. She told him 2 of the babies are joined together at the stomach...(a male & female)....I did some research on the internet and it says thats not possible for conjoined twins to be different sexes. I think the girl is up to something...but he seems to be blinded by it all. I love my Husband...and would like for my marriage to work...but I don't know that I can deal with it. I've been ill ever since I found out. Can't eat or sleep....can't focus on my business like I need to. I just feel so betrayed. Someone please tell me that it will get better soon!1 I am so not looking forward to delivery day.<BR>