I found this link after much searching. It's a riveting story:
htld, there are people posting on this site every day who have saved their marriages using the tools that are available from the owner of this site. Many, many of us have posted our stories of success. And yet you took the time to go back almost a decade to find a post from a poster who mixed and matched philosophies and threw in a little luck to save her marriage. And we don't even know for sure that she did! You call that a "Success Story for those who wonoder what to do."
What do you think we've been doing here?? Do you suppose there is a valid reason for the posters who are on here every day, encouraging hurting newbies on how to save their M using the tools on this site? Do you think there might be a reason why we don't just link these newbies to that post and then move on? Have you considered that throwing out a hit & miss technique that a poster used a decade ago and passing it off as a 'success story for those who wonder what to do' is irresponsible at best?
Do you know this poster from a decade ago? Is she still married? What is her story now?
If your thought is to move past the newby business of typing out their story in order to save them some time, there is a big yellow box on your screen. See it? Right there, on your right-hand side? Those links cut right to the chase and represent the TOOLBOX TO SAVE A MARRIAGE AND MAKE IT A FANTASTIC ONE.
Why bother trying...