Intimacy after the affair - 10/22/13 08:31 PM
HI, My wife and I are 6 months past my infidelity. I had a one night stand and confessed. We have read surviving an affair. We have not separated and she has been very strong through this horrible experience.
One issue we have together is she does want to be intimate with me, but she has visions and can't enjoy the experience without thinking of me with another woman. It is very painful to her and understandably. She is getting fed up with this feeling and she needs to be able to have sex with her husband. She has mentioned the feeling that we need to separate, but so far we have been able to stay together.
How can I help her?
One issue we have together is she does want to be intimate with me, but she has visions and can't enjoy the experience without thinking of me with another woman. It is very painful to her and understandably. She is getting fed up with this feeling and she needs to be able to have sex with her husband. She has mentioned the feeling that we need to separate, but so far we have been able to stay together.
How can I help her?