I discovered hubby joined a website for married people potentially leading to sex or affairs with married women.
We are going away next week for 3 weeks. I have tried talking to him this week and honestly with what I now know I am unsure I want to keep going. But I don’t know if I tell him now what I know or wait till we are away. The fist few days of our holiday we are with friends. I am lost and need advice.
Ps: I found out everything because I have access to his phone and have all the passwords to his @. I can see he is chatting all day long.
When I night it up this week and mentioned that I wouldn’t stand this he stopped for a few days but now we are back to zero.
Please advice Joe to g handle this.

Welcome to MB.

Have you saved what you saw? Has he met with anyone yet? Can you get spyware put on without him knowing?

Do not tell him you have access and are watching.

In addition to these questions.

How long have you been married? Are there any children?