thoughts? - 06/13/05 08:13 AM
Hello,this is my first post but have been reading for a while.
Me and my boyfriend moved very quickly when we met. We have been together for 10.5 months and have spent nearly everyday together. We love eachother so much,we're best friends. We moved in together just 3 months after our first date. We talk about everything, we both want to get married, have kids, build a house, have a farm...etc.
We felt married after 3 months but knew that it was way too soon, so we moved in together instead.
I like to plan and research, I wanted to make sure us living together didn't ruin what we have. And it hasn't. Now that it has been almost a year, we're talking about getting engaged and we have put an offer in on a house in the country. We both feel and act like we're married already(happily married), we just want a decent amount of time to pass so that people don't think we're being hasty or rushing in. We take premarital quizzes and questionaires to prepare ourselves for possible problems that may arise. We don't believe in divorce so we need to be prepared for the long haul. How long do you think we should wait till we get married? Any advice in staying happy for couples who are living together? thanks. me and mike <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
Me and my boyfriend moved very quickly when we met. We have been together for 10.5 months and have spent nearly everyday together. We love eachother so much,we're best friends. We moved in together just 3 months after our first date. We talk about everything, we both want to get married, have kids, build a house, have a farm...etc.
We felt married after 3 months but knew that it was way too soon, so we moved in together instead.
I like to plan and research, I wanted to make sure us living together didn't ruin what we have. And it hasn't. Now that it has been almost a year, we're talking about getting engaged and we have put an offer in on a house in the country. We both feel and act like we're married already(happily married), we just want a decent amount of time to pass so that people don't think we're being hasty or rushing in. We take premarital quizzes and questionaires to prepare ourselves for possible problems that may arise. We don't believe in divorce so we need to be prepared for the long haul. How long do you think we should wait till we get married? Any advice in staying happy for couples who are living together? thanks. me and mike <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />