I learned my Fiance' cheated on me,... what now? HELP - 06/20/06 11:40 PM
My Girlfriend moved in with me in July of 05 with her kids and was trying to get disability because she has advanced diabetes so I just did what needed to be done to make ends meet (working overtime that is) and never complained about it one bit. I thought that was what a relationship was about, supporting each other through everything. Well I became stressed out and the sexual activity diminished at times severely and I started getting questioned about old friends I talk to sometimes on my long trip to work and other things, and if I had seen any of them. I have never cheated and would never cheat on anyone but found a note in February of 06 that she started talking to other men online and one of which she started talking to around the middle of August.. 1.5 months after she moved in and later ended up sleeping with him. The letter was very detailed and nauseating talking about a very lengthy sexual adventure and doing it again soon. I confronted her about it and she confessed to it but nothing else.. then later confessed to seeing him again in Jan of 06 but nothing happened cause she couldn't do it. She moved out after the kids were out of school and we have been talking since, I have learned more things.. well learned of another man that she went to and slept with but not sure when this happened while she lived here. Now she wants to move back and be together cause she realizes what she did and how much the kids love and miss me and promises it will never happen again, but I don't know what to believe anymore after the months of deception and many times she had told me she had never and would never be unfaithful to me. She says now that she wants to be with me and get a job and help to make ends meet and do what is right for me and her children. Should I believe her.. please give me some insight how to handle this. I do love her and cherish her kids but I will NOT settle for anyone that will remain to be unfaithful. Please help. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/confused.gif" alt="" />