thanks wifty but i have a sad feeling i am going to be left with very few people in my life after this "calling out" is done. :-(
mlhb
Oh I would have to disagree with you on this one, mlhb....if you find during your journey of reclaiming yourself that you lose a few "hangers on" along the way, than all the better. But, I'll bet you that what you WILL find is that your friendships will be stronger and much, much healthier.......because you will be healthier!
I finished reading a good Christian book entitled "falling Forward" by Patti Sandi - and during her self-discovery journey she realized that before she got healthy, she was surrounded with "friends" - they were everywhere - she had so many friends and not enough hours in the day....well, she had a life-changing event happen, and those "friends" started dropping like flies........BUT, the friends that were with her from the very beginning, were still there at the end...........and there were only a handful.....but they were her rocks, her strength, and her comfort.....
And I can count in my life maybe 5 people that I would even consider calling for bail money - and quite frankly, I don't need many more than that - because these 5 are all that I really need....
I wouldn't worry about the quantity of people you have in your life - because as well all know it's the quality of people you have in your life that makes everything wonderful!