Long time friend pining for my g/f - 10/01/13 10:58 PM
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Me:� 30 Divorced, xWW out of the picture
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Her: 26 never married.
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Currently in a relationship (over 1 year)�that I would consider serious, we have both talked about M.
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The problem is.
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One of her male friends from HS.� Whom is several states away.
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From what I gather they dated for a very short time in HS, typical HS relationship, No SF.
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They have remained friends throughout the years.
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When we first started dating they would sporadically talk here or there which she would let me know about.� Maybe once a month.
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Well he broke up with his g/f a�3-4 months ago and�that sporadic talking has turned more frequent.
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It reached a point where I became uncomfortable with it,�call it a trigger if you will,�and I�asked that the details of our relationship be kept private.�
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Now she has always been open and honest with me
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But this situation has given me a moment of great pause.
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As this is exactly how my xWW's A started.�
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The content of the messages on his end is completely inappropriate.� Joking or not, I would expect her to put a stop to it or address it, but she always sidesteps the banter.
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But I have seen how this story goes.
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So I am not sure how to address this.
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To me it's not fair to just end our relationship over this b/c�he is simply�pining for my�g/f,�product of the dating world,�but I certainly don't want to be dealing with this down the road or�possibly in M.
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