Finding favorite topics of conversation - 05/18/20 07:31 PM
Dr. Harley suggested I post this question to the forum, so here goes.
He said to me, "The trick in marriage is to explore the universe of interesting topics for both of you (many are presently unknown to both of you), and find the intersection."
I replied, "How can I find this interesting topic that is unknown to both of us? It is hard for me to believe that after 22 years of marriage, there is some topic she is fascinated with which I have never heard of."
Does this make sense? I have no idea to find a mystery topic "presently unknown to both of us" that we would both love. And after this many years I can't image there is anything even remotely interesting that we haven't talked about, yet we would find fascinating.
He said to me, "The trick in marriage is to explore the universe of interesting topics for both of you (many are presently unknown to both of you), and find the intersection."
I replied, "How can I find this interesting topic that is unknown to both of us? It is hard for me to believe that after 22 years of marriage, there is some topic she is fascinated with which I have never heard of."
Does this make sense? I have no idea to find a mystery topic "presently unknown to both of us" that we would both love. And after this many years I can't image there is anything even remotely interesting that we haven't talked about, yet we would find fascinating.