3rd Marriage - 03/03/23 12:53 AM
Hello!
I can see that the forum seems a little slow and many seem to post and disappear. I don’t want to do either of those as it seems everyone is very helpful.
I am a 45 woman on her 3rd marriage. Husband is 47 and it’s his 2nd. I have 3 kids 23(s)& 18(d)from first and 12(d) from second. He never had any kids.
My first ended after a terrible car accident gave ex brain damage and he horrifically physically & sexually abused me - and 20 years later still can barely function as a human. My next ex started cheating on me during my pregnancy but didn’t find out for a year and I mean with who knows how many people. I threw him out.
My now husband ex wife became a drunk & started cheating so he ended that.
We did not meet as married people- cheating is not happening in our marriage but I have already filed for divorce while still living together- he has asked for counseling & I’m still not sure.
I just got through reading every book of Dr Harley-but the book for counselors…. he is amazing!
I’m not sure I understand it all but I want too!
My husband isn’t opposed to reading but isn’t a reader.
I looked at hiring Steve Harley online but that’s extremely expensive.
So how exactly does one start?
I can see that the forum seems a little slow and many seem to post and disappear. I don’t want to do either of those as it seems everyone is very helpful.
I am a 45 woman on her 3rd marriage. Husband is 47 and it’s his 2nd. I have 3 kids 23(s)& 18(d)from first and 12(d) from second. He never had any kids.
My first ended after a terrible car accident gave ex brain damage and he horrifically physically & sexually abused me - and 20 years later still can barely function as a human. My next ex started cheating on me during my pregnancy but didn’t find out for a year and I mean with who knows how many people. I threw him out.
My now husband ex wife became a drunk & started cheating so he ended that.
We did not meet as married people- cheating is not happening in our marriage but I have already filed for divorce while still living together- he has asked for counseling & I’m still not sure.
I just got through reading every book of Dr Harley-but the book for counselors…. he is amazing!
I’m not sure I understand it all but I want too!
My husband isn’t opposed to reading but isn’t a reader.
I looked at hiring Steve Harley online but that’s extremely expensive.
So how exactly does one start?