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Join Date 03/07/02 01:00 PM
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| BS~49
WS~50
Met at church when he was 15, I was 14~~only one I ever dated!
M~31 years total come August 14th (DV~at 7yrs in marriage[2 daughters and pregnant w/3rd, found out 10 days before DV final); RM 21 months later (and had our 2 sons after)
5 kids~D27, D24, D23, S20, & S17
4 grandkids (2GD-5, GS 23months, newest GD born 4/16/02 prematurely at 32 weeks/3lb-2oz, now home and almost 7lb!)
2 Sons-In-Law
OW~49, M30 yrs works as 'head cashier' at same store where H works as 'flooring specialist' (top salesman in store)
BIG, BIG EA/?PA (H swears NOT SEXUAL but admits to 2 'sister-like' kisses)
no real D-Day~gradually Fall of 2001 as he talked more about her and spent lots of time going out with people from work after work (maybe 3-19-02 when I heard H side of cell phone tape recording)
H has said several times he's ended it, but resumes contact or allows her to start contact again.
I've had several confrontations with OW--verbal only, when I've found them out together at restaurants or bars.
Had a 1 1/2hr phone conversation with OW 5/14/02 with WH on an extension in our house. WH was drinking at the time and called to break up w/her. After about a half hour of just listening I started talking too. She promised she would end relationship that night. Very insightful conversation w/her; but she's a big liar! (Imagine that!) No contact for a week ater that call--then told WH she tried, but couldn't do it....and he let it start up again. She told him she's hard to get rid of!
On WH's 50th birthday 6/4 we were looking in a jewlry store while out for his birthday. We looked at wedding bands and he found one he really liked and said he'd wear it! I bought it so fast the sales clerk head spinned! LOL So now he's wearing a wedding band all the time for first time in about 20yrs! That REALLY is messing with OW! She keeps asking him why he's wearing it! LOL
Another false end came 6/7 when WH told me he called OW while both were at work before his shift ended and told her to leave him alone and changed his parking place to other side of lot. She started parking right next to him after EA began...gag/puke
Found both vehicles in parking lot of bar where people from work hang out. WH had promised me he was NOT meeting her that night. I couldn't resist--I put a note on her car that said 'it's really sad you're such a big liar!' That's the story till now.
August is Plan B time |
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