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Join Date 10/07/02 12:00 PM
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| I am the WH.
Married 13 years.
One D (age 13) from this marriage.
One D (age 25) from previous marriage.
D-Day 10/8/2001 of EA with OW on the internet. But did not end communication immediately. Spoke to pastor once and W came the second time.
Ended EA after counseling and W agrees to give me second chance.
Appx.11/2001--5/2002 We try to work things out w/o counseling.
5/15/2002--W discovers I have gone to chat room in city where OW lives and I had changed my screen name back to one that I was using at time of original EA. W announces marriage is over.
Although I had no contact with OW since October I admit to still being curious and attempting to find her in May.
5/2002 I read SAA (and HNHN Relationship Rescue, Love Must be Tough, Winning Your Wife Back Before It's Too late...too many others to name).
6-7/2002 I apologize to MIL, FIL, D1&2, and my family.
6/2002 I begin Individual counseling with Christian therapist.
7/19/2002 W sees same therapist, but only once.
8/16/2002 W and 13 yr old D move 500 miles away.
I send daily communication by email to W.
9/10 W and D age 13 come down for a weekend visit. But no change in status.
10/11 I drive up for visit. W and D are living with friends but their son also living there is verbally abusive to everyone including his own family. W asks me to take D back home with me. But, if anything, our chances of reconciling seem dimmer. She says she's lost all hope.
10/26/02 W says she's coming home because she misses our daughter...God, help me to show her His Love, and mine!
Romans 4:18 Against all hope, Abraham in hope believed... |
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