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Join Date 11/19/02 01:00 PM
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| BW - 32, WH - 33 In the UK
[url=http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=29;t=002124]My Story [/url]
Together 15 years, Married 9 years
No children
EA/PA started 27/7/02
DDAY 28/9/02 - he left
Came back 5/10/02, left 12/10/02, came back 19/10/02, Said wanted ow again 18/11/02
Plan A and cohabiting (in reality he lives with ow full time and just keeps his clothes at our house)
11/12/02 - SF starts. H is now spending more and more time sleeping at our house. H is spending more quality time with me.
14/01/03 H moved Home. Will this Recovery last?
21/01/03 ow says she may be pregnant. Not taken test or missed period. Not due until next week. 24/01/03 ow says went to clinic and pregnancy confirmed. Seems she got her dates wrong. OW miscarried few days later - v convenient.
11/2/03 gave h plan B letter. He immediatly comitted to me and agreed to nc. ow is on holiday for March, before she goes, lots of her contacting h. h responds.
1/4/03 h said he wanted ow
9/4/03 plan B again. I move out. Limited conact where h contacts me.
24/4/03 email to reiterate plan B. 6/5/03 further plan B email.
11/5/03 email from H asking me to come back. Signed Your stupid loving husband. 15/5/03 we go away for weekend and I move home.
23/6/03 suspicious contact has started. No evidence. I hope I am wrong.
28/6/03 Has been no direct contact but says he wants end it. Sends text to ow to say he has ended it with me.
Do I bother with another plan B? |
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