Me and my partner have been together 5 years we have a toddler 20mo. Over the past month she has been different with me, seems off and quick to judge. At first I thought I was just getting under her feet because I'm on furlough, but this kept going on. Whenever I ask what's the matter. She admits she feels sad guessing because of quarantine. But I don't feel I can help only make things worse. I noticed she was never away from her phone taking it literally everywhere she goes in the house, social media use had changed too, posting pictures of herself more regularly (innocent I know, nothing wrong with that) but the same person was liking it. Stupid I know to get suspicious from that. But something wasn't right. I couldn't take it anymore. So when I see her phone rarely laying on the side I looked. I found there was secrets, messaging this person flirting some was him saying how sexy she is. Looking at photos I was horrified, taking semi naked pictures of herself. Have these been sent to him I don't know. Probably likely. What should I do? I was wrong for looking at her phone. But in my opinion I've found something much worse. I have never done anything like that only ever been her in my life and can honestly say that.

Are you married?

You mentioned furlough. Are you military? How long were you away and how long are you back for?