I understand what you are saying, as it also causes me a pang to have my pain - the pain of every BS - cast up in that way, as if I were not the innocent victim, as if I somehow chose to be violated and ripped apart. I can only hope that those who are in turmoil will find the peace and forgiveness they desperately need, and be able to reach out a helping hand to others in the future.

Don't worry if any trolls stop by here. It will boost my ratings far more than my own sweet charm, rofl. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />

***placid meadow music playing softly***

A smooth sea never made a skilled mariner.
~ English proverb

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