Originally Posted by ouchthathurt
There is only one way. File for divorce. She needs to know right off the bat that if she doesn't come clean with everything. And I mean everything.
Divorce is the LAST option if Geeman wants to try to save his M. Divorce or anything else is not to be threatened either.
Geeman's WW is not in the state of mind to spew everything right now. She is in 'me' mode.

The first thing that has to happen is bust up the A. The details will follow.

Tell her you are going to scorch the earth with their affair at their employer.
Agree with MIM on this, bad advice, Geeman has not said that they work together and you do not threaten with this.

Geeman, you need to come back with more info.
Pick yourself up man, you can do this.

M'd 22 years
D-Day 08/08 LTA