Originally Posted by disgustedandsad
He is seeing the IC because he realized the A was all his fault and he wanted to "fix what is wrong."

A waste of time. Dr Harley will tell him why he had the affair FOR FREE and he is a clinical psychologist and the founder of Marriage Builders:

Originally Posted by DR. WILLARD HARLEY
"An analysis of the betrayed spouse's childhood or emotional state of mind in an effort to discover why he or she would have an affair is distracting and unnecessary. It takes precious time away from finding the real solutions. I know why people have affairs: We are all wired for it. Given certain conditions, we would all do it. Given other conditions, however, none of us would do it. So the goal of the first step is to discover the conditions that made the affair possible and eliminate them."

There ya go! Now he knows why he had the affair!

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