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Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB Retread #2362210 04/26/10 10:40 AM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 267 B bigpicture Member
bigpicture Member B Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 267	D&S, Maybe a good question would simply be "Spouse, what is your goal for IC?" If it was to recognize all the bad things that you can use as excuses to keep doing stupid or bad things now then you have already exposed all the bad things that happened decades ago. Next. As in Next is your turn to state a goal for marriage like "Spouse I know you had a tough childhood and you were treated cruelly and I really want to help you overcome that by having a great life now with me in a great marriage that will make up for all the crappy stuff you had to deal with years ago. Can I help you with ... (I'd go out on a limb here and make the offer for SF knowing most men put that atop their ENs list but you say whatever you think is best at the time) God's goal for marriage: Become ONE! How? MBer methods. Me:husband 42 wife, 40 married 1/12/1991 3 children, 1 granddaughter

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childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/24/10 09:38 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/24/10 09:58 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/24/10 10:02 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/24/10 10:06 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/24/10 10:11 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/24/10 10:37 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/24/10 10:46 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/24/10 11:30 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 02:11 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	TheAntiChick	04/25/10 02:19 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 02:29 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/25/10 03:54 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 07:17 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	JustFigureditout	04/25/10 12:23 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 03:17 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 03:20 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/25/10 05:27 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 05:37 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 05:59 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 06:04 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 06:08 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 06:05 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 06:06 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 06:09 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/25/10 06:29 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 06:39 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 06:49 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 06:42 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 06:46 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 06:52 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/25/10 06:59 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/25/10 05:55 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 05:27 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/26/10 05:30 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/26/10 05:41 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:55 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 03:40 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 04:13 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 05:21 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:26 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 05:29 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:31 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	JustFigureditout	04/26/10 05:37 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MBsurvivor	04/26/10 05:50 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	jayne241	04/26/10 05:29 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	jayne241	04/26/10 05:31 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 05:35 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 05:38 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:41 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	mr_anderson	04/26/10 06:16 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 06:26 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:32 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 05:34 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 06:30 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	bigpicture	04/26/10 06:58 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/26/10 07:24 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 07:36 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 08:40 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/26/10 11:27 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/26/10 11:50 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 12:31 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/27/10 12:47 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 01:40 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 03:27 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 03:50 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	cinderella	04/27/10 04:09 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 04:17 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	cinderella	04/27/10 04:20 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 04:23 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Dufresne	04/27/10 04:40 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/27/10 12:30 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	cinderella	04/27/10 04:15 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 02:54 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 03:05 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 03:27 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 03:22 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 03:39 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	SugarCane	04/27/10 03:51 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 03:52 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 04:13 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	markos	04/27/10 04:22 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 04:24 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 04:27 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Fireproof	04/27/10 04:34 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	markos	04/27/10 04:19 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 04:24 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 04:27 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/27/10 04:34 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Fireproof	04/27/10 04:39 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 07:26 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	JustFigureditout	04/26/10 11:57 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Tawandabelle	04/27/10 12:07 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 12:19 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/27/10 12:18 AM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	markos	04/26/10 03:22 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Retread	04/26/10 03:32 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	bigpicture	04/26/10 03:40 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	TheAntiChick	04/26/10 03:51 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	disgustedandsad	04/26/10 04:07 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Retread	04/26/10 04:16 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 04:33 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	Fred_in_VA	04/26/10 04:51 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	jayne241	04/26/10 05:02 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:09 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:11 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 05:04 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	ChrisInNOVA	04/26/10 04:18 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 04:29 PM
Re: childhood trauma, IC and MB	MelodyLane	04/26/10 04:58 PM

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