I have to ask a very tough question:

You have decided to save your marriage - do you expect to do that if you continue to carry anger and resentment?

Another one:

Do you love your husband?

I want to assume that you love him, and you want to save the marriage. Or, that you want to love him and save the marriage.

Either way, the anger and resentment need to go away...to make room for the love...

I know a lot about anger and resentment. Maybe too much. Anger can eat you up and kill your spirit.

Do you see the anger reducing over time, or is it increasing?


Lucky to be where I am, in a safe place to get marriage-related support.
Most recent D-day Fall 2005
Our new marriage began that day. Not easily, but it did happen.