I love my H, and I want to get rid of the anger and resentment. He is trying, and slowly succeeding, in changing what needed to be changed in him. It's been a two step forward, one step backward process. But it ultimately is forward.

It has reduced over time but there are bad days. It does eat me up!

Thank you for responding.

Me: BW, 46
Him: WH, 48
EA/PA with co-worker 8-08 to 7-09
D-day 7-29
NC 8-17
OW and WH both fired from jobs
OW lost court case for restraining order- judge called her a "practiced deciever" who manufactured evidence!!