Thanks for saying I am normal! I haven't felt normal in a long time!!

I will make some good plans for D-day. That is great advice. I don't want it to creep up on me.

I love the MB ideas. My H likes them too. I can't imagine destroying my life the way he did. I know in many ways it was worse for him. I still have a great job, my friends and family were supportive and were furious at him when I exposed. I could have walked away and had the ability to support myself, keep my life except for him, and been all right (eventually).

I wish there were local MB support groups for couples - it sure would be a great support system!

Me: BW, 46
Him: WH, 48
EA/PA with co-worker 8-08 to 7-09
D-day 7-29
NC 8-17
OW and WH both fired from jobs
OW lost court case for restraining order- judge called her a "practiced deciever" who manufactured evidence!!